– Rena Bauer
I just recently stopped dating someone because I knew she wasn’t for me in the long-term.
A friend told me one time that she has relationships with people if they are “cute enough”. This friend has long-term relationships!
My question is, why are you in your relationship? Because the person is “cute enough”, or because you want to be in the relationship and you see a future with this person?
Do you continue dating someone you don’t see a future with?
I had an opportunity to continue dating someone who adores me. Someone I like and I am attracted to. I really enjoy spending time with her and she make me feel really good because she makes it clear that she likes me.
I realized quickly that even though I like her, I don’t see a long term future with her. Not because she isn’t great, because she is.
During this short time, I realized how my ex-girlfriend who broke up with me frequently and also never seemed fully into our 9-year relationship, must have felt with me.